English 1100
25 September 2016
Prof. Young
Who to Blame
Blame is the act of displacing pain and discomfort onto someone or something else, which is something Hal is especially good at. Hal is trying to protect Cully with all his might as he does not want Cully to grow up to be him. Cully has a better future than Hal did when he was his age and Hal knows this, thus causing him to live through Cully and turn a blind eye to Cully's actions. Hal has nothing that he is proud of or even looks forward to doing than spending his time with Cully. As a result Hal constantly shifts blame to wherever he can like when Cully got into the fight with Bishop and Dex, Hal instantly stated "if only he'd had more money to give as an offering to the church" (Steinke 228). He never sees Cully for who he really is as he is stuck the past and blames himself for what Cully does in the present when he thinks "if he could only show his devotion better" (228). The fact that he goes to lengths to blame anyone else is also a way for him to protect the fact that the only thing he was proud is not what he wanted as well. This gives the reader the impression that when push comes to shove he would either protect his son with everything he has or accept the fact the Cully will never be the person Hal wants him to be.
Dex's mother is shocked at the fact that she knew some of the people and that they would do something like that. She knows in a sense that Dex went as it was the same people he hung around. However she stated that "Dex knows how to control himself, no matter what present he's offered" (180). She taught Dex better than to just leave Willa by herself in that situation which is why she is shocked at the possibility of him being at the party because he should have done something to help her. Dex's mother blames the people at the party as she stated that Willa was going to a party innocently and was not expecting what was actually going to happen, which gives the impression that she does not shift blame to others but to the people responsible for the actions they have taken, unlike Hal.
Dex still has feelings for Willa even after what happened at the party. He found an opening to connect with her through the project to finally to be with her and to see if she is okay. Dex has an actual interest of Willa making their friendship genuine in a way as he wants to be there for her while trying to create a relationship with her. The reason that Dex decided to act was that he felt guilty for leaving her in that situation in the first place as he could have done something to protect her. In a way he blames himself for that but he blames everyone who participated in doing that to Willa. Consequentially, that will eventually lead Dex to do something drastic to help Willa and make sure the ones responsible pay for their actions further down the line.
In this section Willa was the concentration of the reading, her family is a heavy factor in her life right now as she does not leave her house so much. They are speaking out about what happened to her at the party and blaming her for happened to her as her father as it was her fault. Willa's father even said "Pastor will set you straight," as Willa was the one out of her mind (185). The reason her parents are blaming her is that, for one, they do not want anyone else to know about what happened and do not know who really did it to Willa. Blaming Willa is their way of not being seen as 'bad parents' from everyone in the community and saving face. Their continuous actions of ostracizing Willa solidifies this idea of blame as they do not accept the fact that she is the victim; as a result causing Willa to be even more isolated than she already is making her more mentally unstable.
Works Cited
Steinke, Rene. Friendswood. New York: Riverhead, 2014. Print.




